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How to Raise Resilient and Confident Kids with Simple Daily Steps

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by Courtney Rosenfeld and Admin

Busy parents juggling work, faith, and family life often end up seeking parenting advice when a child’s big feelings show up as meltdowns, clinginess, or harsh self-talk. The hard part is that children’s self-confidence can feel fragile in the very seasons when adults are stretched by anxiety, grief, or financial pressure. Yet children’s self-confidence is a cornerstone of child development and well-being, shaping how kids handle friendships, mistakes, and new responsibilities. When early childhood emotional growth is supported with steady care, building resilience in kids becomes part of everyday life.

Understanding Kid Confidence

Self-confidence for kids is the quiet belief, “I can try, I can learn, and I’m still okay if it’s hard.” It grows when children practice bouncing back, take small responsibilities, and build a warm picture of who they are. A helpful foundation is self-love is accepting yourself, so mistakes do not turn into shame.

This matters because faith-filled parenting is easier when your child can name feelings, ask for help, and try again without spiraling. It also protects family peace when money is tight, plans change, or you cannot fix everything right away. Your steady presence is part of their emotional intelligence, even on imperfect days.

Picture a rushed morning when the lunch money is short and your child forgets homework. Confidence sounds like, “I’m upset, but I can fix it,” not “I’m dumb.” Even a small reset helps, and parents who protect their own capacity often show up calmer, since self care activities can lower stress.

Use 6 Everyday Moves to Grow Confidence at Home

Confidence doesn’t usually come from one big “pep talk.” In our house, it grew in tiny moments, how I responded to mistakes, how often I let my kids try, and whether home felt like a safe place to practice.

  • Praise effort, not just outcomes: Aim your words at what your child did, trying again, staying calm, asking for help, not just the grade or the goal. A simple swap like praising effort teaches kids that progress is something they can control. Try: “You kept working even when it got frustrating,” or “I noticed you practiced before you showed me.”
  • Offer two good choices every day: Decision-making is a confidence muscle, and kids build it one rep at a time. Give small, safe choices: “Do you want to do homework before or after snack?” or “Blue shirt or green shirt?” This supports independence (one of those confidence foundations) while keeping you in charge of the boundaries.
  • Invite “new but doable” activities: Confidence grows when kids collect evidence that they can learn. Keep it low-cost and low-pressure: library events, a new park trail, helping cook one recipe, or trying a beginner class through your community center or church. The goal isn’t to find “their thing” instantly, it’s to normalize being a beginner.
  • Coach a growth mindset in the moment: When your child hits a wall, don’t rush past it, teach them how to talk to themselves through it. The phrase I can’t do this yet is powerful because it leaves room for learning instead of labeling. You can add a next step: “Yet, so what’s one small part you can do first?”
  • Reframe setbacks with a quick “recovery plan”: After tears or frustration, help them name the feeling, then choose one action: breathe, get a drink, ask for help, or take a 3-minute break. This builds emotional intelligence and resilience, “I can calm down and try again”, instead of shame. I like to end with a faith-anchored reminder: “God helps us grow; we don’t have to be perfect to be loved.”
  • Celebrate uniqueness with specific language: Notice what makes your child them, their humor, creativity, gentleness, curiosity, leadership, and say it out loud. Go beyond “You’re special” and try: “I love how you include the new kid,” or “You ask thoughtful questions.” When kids feel seen, they take healthier risks because they aren’t trying to earn worth.

Daily and Weekly Habits That Build Steady Confidence

Habits take pressure off both parent and child because you are not relying on willpower or a perfect day. With simple routines that honor faith, stewardship, and emotional health, you can grow resilience over time while keeping family life and budgeting realistic.

Two-Minute Morning Blessing
  • What it is: Speak one prayer and one strength you see in your child.
  • How often: Daily
  • Why it helps: It anchors identity in love, not performance.
After-School Reset Ritual
  • What it is: Do snack, water, and a five-breath calm-down before requests.
  • How often: Weekdays
  • Why it helps: It lowers stress so cooperation and problem-solving come easier.
Practice the 4 P’s Script
  • What it is: Use the 4 P’s of Behavior Success when correcting behavior.
  • How often: As needed
  • Why it helps: It keeps discipline consistent, patient, and encouraging.
Weekly Courage Rep
  • What it is: Choose one small challenge and debrief what you learned.
  • How often: Weekly
  • Why it helps: It turns bravery into a repeatable skill.
Family Money-and-Feelings Check-In
  • What it is: Review one spending choice and one hard feeling from the week.
  • How often: Weekly
  • Why it helps: It connects values, self-control, and calm communication.

Common Questions Parents Ask About Resilience

Q: How can I encourage my child to develop resilience when they face setbacks or failures?
A: Start by naming the feeling and normalizing the struggle: “That was hard, and you can try again.” Then help them choose one small “next step” they control, like practicing for five minutes or asking for help. If you feel tired or unsure, you are not alone, since parenting uncertainty and burnout show up for many parents.

Q: What are some effective ways to boost my child’s independence in daily decision-making?
A: Offer two good options you can live with, then let them choose and experience the outcome. Give a simple responsibility that fits their age, and praise follow-through more than speed. Independence grows when kids feel trusted in small, repeatable moments.

Q: How do I help my child form a positive self-image without focusing only on their achievements?
A: Talk about character, effort, and how they treat others, not just results. The idea that self-respect is others-centered gives you language to affirm kindness, honesty, and courage. Remind them they are loved because they belong, not because they win.

Q: What strategies can I use to support my child when they feel overwhelmed or uncertain about trying new activities?
A: Shrink the task: visit the room, meet the leader, or try five minutes, then decide. Teach a brief calm-down, like slow breaths and a short prayer, so their body learns safety. Celebrate showing up, even if they stop early.

Q: If I want to start a small side business to better support my family financially, what steps should I take to get started properly?
A: Begin with one problem you can solve well and a tiny weekly time block that does not drain family stability. Track every expense and set a clear “stop” rule so risk stays manageable. Those interested in more information can visit zenbusiness.com. Keep it faith-informed by seeing work as stewardship, not pressure, and protect rest.

Sending Kids Forward with Daily Love and Lasting Confidence

It’s hard watching your child stumble and wondering if you’re motivating them, or accidentally making them doubt themselves. The way forward isn’t pressure or perfection, but supportive parenting strategies rooted in steady connection, honest repair, and faith-shaped hope that keeps growth in view through practical guidance resources. Over time, continuous parental love becomes the safe place they return to, and long-term confidence development starts to look less like bravado and more like calm courage. Confidence grows best where love stays steady. Choose one strategy and one small habit to start today, and repeat it for a week. That patience sends them forward with resilience, because confidence is a lifelong gift that strengthens every relationship, challenge, and calling ahead.

Here’s How You Can Start Balancing Parenting While Advancing Your Nursing Career.

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by Admin and Courtney Rosenfeld

Parenting is already a full-time job. So is nursing. Try pursuing one while doing the other, and you’ll discover fast that traditional ideas of “balance” go out the window. There’s no fixed equation. No clean split between work and home. But for many nurses with kids, that reality isn’t a limitation—it’s a creative challenge. And the ones who thrive don’t eliminate tension between these roles. They build fluidity between them. What follows isn’t a prescription—it’s a set of ideas, earned from the overlaps, burnouts, resets, and pivots shared by nurse parents who live both.

Define Balance for Yourself (Not Someone Else)

Forget the fantasy where everything’s calm and symmetrical. In practice, balance often looks like giving just enough to work today, so your kid gets more of you tomorrow. Or letting go of being great at everything, everywhere, all at once. That’s especially true for nurse moms who’ve had to ride the guilt waves. One nurse shared how, on tough days, she lets herself show up at 70% at home, knowing the pendulum will swing back. That self-compassion matters. Balance isn’t about being equal—it’s about making peace with your trade-offs, then pivoting from them purposefully.

Structured Growth Without the Chaos

One of the biggest levers nurse-parents can pull—without unraveling their lives—is structured professional development. RN-to-BSN programs offer a way forward that builds leadership, clinical depth, and healthcare management fluency without forcing a total life overhaul. These programs don’t just advance credentials—they help working nurses take command of systems, lead teams, and make smarter decisions under pressure. Better yet, many of them offer flexible online formats designed for professionals juggling work and family. To learn more, explore how these programs support long-term growth without short-changing your presence at home.

Choose a Schedule That Serves You (Not Just the Unit)

This is where things get tactical. Because the type of shift you work determines everything—your sleep, your energy, your presence at dinner. Some nurses find that shift-scheduling that matches family needs is more possible when they move into per diem, float pools, or community care settings. Others build leverage by cross-training or picking up certifications that make them harder to replace—so they can negotiate for what they need. It’s not always about fewer hours. It’s about choosing hours that don’t pull you apart at the seams.

Build a Support System That’s Real, Not Aspirational

Let’s be honest: “Lean on your village” is easier said than done. Support can’t just mean help from a partner or access to childcare. It has to mean knowing who you can call on when you’ve hit your wall. Peer and family support in burnout recovery is a cornerstone for nurse parents who’ve made this lifestyle sustainable. Whether it’s a coworker who understands when you trade shifts for your kid’s performance, or a grandparent who handles school pickup, building redundancies into your life is the move. Don’t try to do it all. Try to design systems that hold you when you’re maxed out.

Protect Your Off-Switch with Ritual, Not Excuses

Nursing doesn’t come with tidy emotional cutoffs. You can leave a shift, but the intensity follows. Without intentional decompression, you carry that adrenaline into bedtime stories—and your kids feel it. That’s why many night-shift parents rely on sleep rituals that signal to their bodies and their kids that it’s time to reset. This could be a literal curtain in your house that marks “mom’s sleeping zone” or a post-shift drive with music that helps you shift out of clinical mode. Either way, consistency helps your family know when you’re available—and when you’re refilling your tank.

See the Overlap Between Your Roles, Not Just the Divide

You don’t have to compartmentalize your whole identity. The emotional regulation you use to calm a panicked patient? It helps when your toddler’s losing it in the cereal aisle. The way you advocate for a patient’s needs during rounds? That same energy helps when navigating IEP meetings or pediatric appointments. Gaining professional resilience by nurturing your kids isn’t some stretch—it’s already happening. The same goes the other way: parenting teaches you improvisation, empathy, and endurance. And every one of those qualities makes you a stronger nurse.

Adapt As You Go—and Advocate As You Grow

No schedule, role, or rhythm is forever. Kids grow. Jobs shift. New opportunities come. That’s why the goal isn’t a perfect system. It’s flexibility with intention. For some nurses, that means scaling back for a season and then reinvesting in certifications when the time is right. Others work with leadership on staggered shifts or hybrid roles to stay involved in their kids’ lives. What matters is being proactive—not reactive. Organized families schedule shifts strategically, not just to make things work today, but to keep tomorrow open.

You can be a great nurse and a present parent—but probably not in the same hour. It takes fluidity, boundary-setting, support, and self-forgiveness. There’s no one schedule, strategy, or system that fits everyone. What matters is building a life where neither role has to be sacrificed to do the other with care. You’ll miss things. You’ll adjust. And with time, you’ll become not just balanced—but adaptable, empowered, and wise in ways that only come from doing both.

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Sacred Questions and Backyard Discoveries: A Parent’s Guide to Inspired Learning

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by Admin with contributions by Courtney Rosenfeld

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There’s something holy about a curious child. The way their eyes light up at a frog’s leap or
how they pepper you with questions about the moon—it all feels like a glimpse of divine
wonder. As a parent trying to raise children in a world that’s moving fast and often
sideways, the task of keeping that curiosity burning can feel both vital and fragile.
Especially for Christian families, where faith and learning aren’t meant to live in separate
rooms, nurturing a love for learning is part of nurturing the soul.

Let Wonder Be Encouraged

You don’t need a microscope or a field trip to Mars to show your kids that learning is
sacred. Sometimes it’s enough to pause in the backyard and marvel at the veins of a leaf.
When you treat awe with respect, you teach your kids that learning isn’t just academic—it’s
spiritual. Every “why” and “how” becomes a kind of prayer, a search for the fingerprints of
God in the world around them. Let them know it’s okay to wonder out loud, to sit with
mystery, and not always have the answer

Curate a Home that Breathes Curiosity

You don’t have to build a homeschool paradise or have encyclopedias lined up like museum
pieces. But a home that encourages curiosity is one that welcomes questions more than
correct answers. Keep books where little hands can reach them. Leave art supplies out
longer than is convenient. Ask your child what they’re thinking about instead of what
they’ve accomplished. Curiosity dies in homes obsessed with performance, but it thrives
where questions are given room to roam.

Show Them the Way by Walking It

There’s something quietly powerful about your kids watching you go back to school—not
just to advance a career, but to stretch your mind and live the values you talk about. You
show them that learning isn’t limited to childhood, and that growth is a lifelong pursuit
worth the effort. Online degree programs make it easier to juggle work, family duties, and
school without sacrificing one for the other. If you’re an RN, pursuing a master’s degree in
nursing helps you build skills in nurse education, informatics, nurse administration, or
advanced practice nursing options—and this is a good stepping stone to boosting your
impact and your earning power.

Let Scripture Be a Living Text

It’s easy for the Bible to become something children memorize and recite without
engagement, like a school assignment. But if you let Scripture breathe—if you ask
questions about it, encourage your kids to wrestle with it, and treat it like a living, dynamic
story—it changes everything. Discuss parables like they’re puzzles. Explore Proverbs like
they’re treasure maps. You don’t need to sanitize the complexity of the Bible for your kids;
instead, let them live in it. That’s where faith and learning meet.

Protect Their Time, Don’t Pack It

One of the fastest ways to kill a love for learning is to overschedule a child’s life. If there’s
no margin, there’s no room for discovery. When every moment is spoken for—soccer
practice, youth group, music lessons—curiosity takes a back seat to logistics. Protect their
boredom. That’s where some of the most creative, inquisitive moments begin. Let them
have time to lie on their back and watch clouds or ask what happened to the dinosaurs. God
can work in the silence between events.

Encourage Learning from All Kinds of People

In Christian households, it’s tempting to filter everything through a narrow lens for the
sake of “safety,” but wisdom is often found in unexpected places. Encourage your kids to
read broadly, to meet people who think differently, and to listen well. You don’t have to
agree with every author or viewpoint they encounter—but you do have to trust that
engaging with diverse perspectives will stretch their hearts and minds. Faith is not
weakened by learning from others; it’s deepened by it.

Celebrate the Journey, Not the Gold Stars

If every achievement has to come with a reward or a grade, your child will start to equate
learning with performance. Instead, celebrate the effort. Praise the moment your child kept
going when something was hard or the way they explained their thinking. Show them that
learning is its own reward. When kids feel like their identity is wrapped up in being “smart”
or “right,” they become afraid to take risks. But when they know that mistakes are just part
of the process, they stay in the game longer.

Raising kids who love to learn isn’t a box you check off—it’s a fire you keep tending, a
rhythm you help them find. For Christian families, this kind of learning is tethered to
something deeper than test scores or trivia. It’s about seeing the world as a canvas painted
by a God who invites questions, exploration, and joy. When you nurture this love in your
children, you’re doing more than preparing them for school. You’re preparing them for a
life that sees wonder as sacred and knowledge as a way to walk closer with God.

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Helping Your Child Build Healthy Habits That Last a Lifetime

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By Admin with contributions by Courtney Rosenfeld

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Helping your children develop healthy habits is a cornerstone of effective parenting. Embodying the values you wish to instill creates a living example for your children to follow. This journey involves more than just setting rules; it requires fostering an environment where children feel empowered to make choices that benefit their well-being. From education to physical activity, every aspect of daily life offers an opportunity to teach resilience and adaptability.

Pursue Your Educational Goals

One of the most powerful ways to inspire your children is by pursuing your own educational dreams. If you’ve been considering pursuing a college degree, now might be the perfect time. Online programs offer the flexibility to balance studies with other commitments, allowing you to learn at your own pace. Whether you’re interested in information technology, business administration, or healthcare management, achieving your educational goals can set a powerful example for your children. It shows them the value of lifelong learning and the importance of balancing personal and professional growth.

Create a Flexible Learning Space

Creating a nurturing environment that evolves with your child’s developmental stages is crucial. By designing a flexible learning space, you provide your child with the opportunity to explore, make mistakes, and learn from them. This approach supports their current needs and prepares them for future challenges by promoting resilience and adaptability. Involving children in the design and decision-making processes of their surroundings empowers them and instills a sense of ownership and responsibility.

Teach Good Hygiene

Leading by example in personal hygiene is a powerful way to instill lifelong healthy habits in your children. By consistently practicing routines such as bathing, brushing teeth, and wearing clean clothes, you promote both physical cleanliness and mental well-being. These habits can boost self-esteem and confidence, as presenting oneself well often positively influences how others perceive us. Moreover, these routines can serve as calming rituals, providing stability and reducing stress in daily life.

Have Fun as a Family

Incorporating regular family activities that promote physical health can transform healthy living into an enjoyable and essential part of your family’s routine. Planning activities like hiking, biking, or playing sports together fosters a love for fitness and strengthens family bonds. Engaging in these activities can help instill a lifelong appreciation for physical health in your children, as they see exercise as a fun and shared experience rather than a chore. Setting specific and achievable goals, such as walking for 30 minutes three times a week, can make these activities more structured and rewarding.

Guide Children Towards Mindful Eating

Creating a nurturing mealtime atmosphere is essential for helping children develop mindful eating habits and a healthy relationship with food. Reducing distractions and focusing on the meal enables your child to better recognize their body’s natural hunger and fullness cues. This approach supports their physical health and enhances mental well-being, as mindful eating is associated with improved overall health. Involving children in meal planning, such as allowing them to choose between a few vegetable options, can boost their interest in trying new foods and make them feel more engaged in their meals.

Foster Open Family Communication

Creating a safe space for open dialogue within the family is crucial for guiding your children toward making lifelong healthy choices. Establish moments dedicated to conversation, where children feel secure expressing their thoughts and emotions without fear of judgment. Demonstrating empathy and actively listening can significantly enhance trust and openness, which are crucial for resolving conflicts constructively. Overcoming challenges such as generational gaps and cultural differences requires patience and a commitment to fostering understanding. In today’s digital age, setting boundaries on technology use is vital to maintaining meaningful interactions and emotional connections.

The journey of guiding your children towards healthy choices is a profound and ongoing commitment. By integrating education, physical activity, and open communication into your family life, you lay a robust foundation for their future. Your actions today will echo in their lives, shaping their ability to make informed and beneficial decisions. As they grow, the values and habits you instill will serve as a compass, guiding them through life’s challenges with confidence and resilience.

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Securing Bright Tomorrows: Transforming Lives Through Advocacy for Vulnerable Children

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Guest Post by Courtney Rosenfeld

Advocating for vulnerable children requires a collective effort from individuals, nonprofits, schools, and organizations dedicated to making a meaningful difference. These children often face challenges impacting their safety, education, and overall well-being, so addressing their needs with compassion and action is crucial. By combining resources, expertise, and community support, advocates can create initiatives that empower and protect young lives. This article explores diverse ways to champion these efforts, offering strategies to uplift and improve outcomes for vulnerable children.

Supporting Children’s Mental Health: A Collaborative Approach

Ensuring children have access to mental health support is crucial for their overall well-being. Schools play a pivotal role by integrating mental health curriculums and offering resources like counselors and community programs; collaboration between schools, families, and mental health professionals is key to creating personalized strategies for each child. If you’re inspired to make a difference, consider pursuing a psychology degree to gain the skills needed to support children in need. Online programs offer the flexibility to balance studies with other responsibilities, enabling you to contribute meaningfully to this crucial field (check this out).

Empowering Children with Technology Education

Incorporating technology education into the lives of vulnerable children can profoundly impact their future by providing them with crucial skills for the digital era. By focusing on areas like coding and digital literacy, these educational programs ensure children are prepared for a rapidly evolving world. Organizations offer courses with significant tuition assistance, enabling most students to enroll for free, thus eliminating financial barriers to learning. This initiative helps bridge the digital divide and equips children with the tools needed for future careers in technology, fostering empowerment and independence.  

Equipping Communities with Mobile Health Units

Mobile Health Units (MHUs) offer a dynamic solution for delivering essential medical services to children in remote or underserved areas. These units, known as Mobile Health Clinics (MHCs), are designed to be adaptable and mobile, providing timely healthcare in emergencies and routine care in isolated communities. By integrating into the community and utilizing local resources, MHCs improve access to healthcare and help bridge the gap in health disparities for vulnerable children. MHCs open their doors directly into communities to provide tailored, high-impact, affordable healthcare that responds dynamically to the community’s evolving needs.

Enhancing After-School Programs for Vulnerable Youth

Investing in after-school programs is crucial for supporting vulnerable children, offering them a safe space to develop essential life skills. These programs, especially in economically disadvantaged areas, often face challenges like underfunding and high staff turnover. By advocating for increased financial support from the public and private sectors, you can help ensure these programs provide high-quality developmental experiences. This support is vital for fostering resilience and social-emotional learning among youth. Research highlights the importance of structured youth-adult interactions and reflective engagement in these settings, which are key to positive youth development.  

Organizing Engaging Fundraising Events

Hosting charity auctions or raffles with donated items or experiences is a powerful way to support vulnerable children. By tapping into the generosity of businesses and individuals, you can collect attractive prizes that draw participants and enhance fundraising efforts. A popular option is the 50/50 raffle, where half of the proceeds go to the winner and the other half to the cause, making it a simple yet effective method to engage donors. With the rise of online platforms, online raffles have become increasingly popular, reaching a wider audience and boosting awareness of your mission. By organizing these events, you raise essential funds and build a community of supporters committed to improving the lives of children in need.

Advocating for Children’s Mental Health

To effectively support vulnerable children, securing funding for mental health research is essential. The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) provides grants to enhance mental health services for children with serious emotional disturbances. By investing in targeted research, you can contribute to developing more effective interventions than universal approaches, as demonstrated by recent studies. This research can guide policy and program development, ensuring resources are efficiently allocated to meet the specific needs of these children. Ultimately, such funding not only aids in their transition to adulthood but also alleviates the long-term societal impact of untreated mental health issues.

Conclusion

By adopting various impactful strategies, you can become an essential advocate for improving the lives of vulnerable children. From enhancing access to quality education and healthcare to fostering meaningful community engagement, your efforts can create lasting change. No matter how small, each action contributes to a stronger, more supportive foundation for children facing challenges. Together, these initiatives pave the way for brighter opportunities and a better future for the next generation.

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HOW SPEAKING IN TONGUES CAN HELP A BELIEVER

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SO WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO SPEAK IN TONGUES?

Speaking in tongues is the supernatural ability to speak a language unknown to us. We cannot learn it because it is a gift from God. We receive the gift of tongues when we were baptized in the Holy Spirit. As believers, we need to understand that this ability has a purpose and is very beneficial to our Christian lives. 

There are over 100 benefits to speaking in tongues. I will list 5 benefits here:

Speaking in tongues keeps you in tune with the Holy Spirit

“Likewise, the Spirit also helps in our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.“ (Romans 8:26 AMP).

When we pray in tongues, we are assured that our Spirit is in direct communication with our heavenly Father as he intercedes for us. This means that our prayer is spirit-Inspired. Having this in mind, we know that whatever we say is in line with the Word and will of God! When we pray in tongues, we may not understand what we are saying, but we know that the utterance the Holy Spirit is giving is ‘spot on’.

Strengthens our Spirit

Additionally, tongues are used as a means of spiritual edification.

1 Corinthians 14:4 says, “He that speaketh in an unknown tongue himself.” To edify means to build up ourselves spiritually. Yes, it’s a spiritual exercise that STRENGTHENS the inner man (Spirit).

Today, we put so much emphasis on strengthening our bodies or minds but neglect our spirits, which explains why most believers are spiritually weak and prone to enemy attacks. Believers who ignore their spirits remain weak in faith, whereas those who feed and develop their spirits through prayer and the study of God’s word remain strong and continue to rise in faith.

Stimulates our Faith

Jude 20

But ye, beloved, building up yourselves on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Ghost.

When we pray in tongues, we activate our Spirit to be in the position (Faith) to receive God’s blessings. Faith is of the Spirit, and if the Spirit is weak, faith will be weak. When we pray in tongues, we are strengthening our spirit. And by so doing, we stimulate our faith.

Speaking in tongues confuses the enemy.

1 Corinthians 14:2

For he that speaketh in an unknown tongue speaketh not unto men, but unto God: for no man understandeth him; howbeit in the Spirit he speaketh mysteries.

Tongues are a direct means of communication with God. It’s called a mystery because it’s a supernatural language that cannot be taught, learned, or written in any institution. It’s also the only language that confuses the enemy because he doesn’t understand it. Tongues are our divine weapon against the devil’s plans and attacks. When we pray in tongues, we activate the Holy Spirit within us to raise a standard against him, indicating that we have won. Why? Because we prayed without any interference from the enemy.

Brings forth a revelation of God’s plans for our lives.

 I truly believe that the Spirit of God will reveal things to you, as you seek Him, read His Word and obey his commandments. And it will come from the Holy Spirit to your spirit. Trust and expect the Holy Spirit to guide you into all the truth and reveal His plans for you!

Conclusion

Speaking in tongues, praying and fasting were often top priorities for the early church. Activate your spirit by praying constantly in tongues.

In 1 Corinthians 14:18, Apostle Paul confidently says, “I thank God that I speak in tongues more than all of you.”

In 1 Corinthians 14:5

I would that ye all speak with tongues …

In verse 39, he taught and instructed that they should not stop believers from speaking in tongues. 

1 Corinthians 14:39 

Wherefore, brethren, covet to prophesy and forbid not to speak with tongues.

Ephesians 6:18    

Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit…

God equipped and gifted you even as he saved you. I encourage you to use the gift that he so richly bestowed upon you by building up yourself on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Ghost (in tongues) Jude 20.

As you do so, you will become more aware of God’s presence and begin to walk in the other gifts of the Spirit. You will become spiritually strong and equipped to quench the fiery darts of the wicked one.

Some books that I would recommend:

  1. Smith Wigglesworth on Manifesting the Power of God: Walking in God’s Anointing Every Day of the Year.

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I’d like to hear from you.

Practical Tips for Coping with Grief, Honoring Loved Ones, and Prioritizing Self-Care

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Guest Post by Courtney Rosenfeld

Losing someone close to you is without a doubt one of the most painful experiences we go through. During this time, it’s important to take care of your mental, spiritual, and emotional health. Here are some practical tips that will help you cope with loss, honor your loved ones, and care for yourself during this difficult time, courtesy of Our Angels Table.

Allow Yourself Time to Process Your Emotions

Taking the time to process your feelings after a loss is crucial for your emotional well-being. It’s important to avoid suppressing or denying your emotions, and instead, allow yourself to experience them without judgment. This may entail taking a break from your daily routine, seeking support from loved ones, or practicing self-care activities like journaling or meditation.

Practice Self-Care Daily

When we experience loss or grief, it can be easy to forget to care for ourselves amidst the pain and sadness. However, engaging in self-care during this time is vital for our well-being and healing. Self care can look different for everyone, but it can include things like taking breaks when needed, practicing relaxation or meditation techniques, reaching out to supportive friends and family, and seeking professional help if necessary.

Spend Time with Supportive Loved Ones

It can be comforting and helpful to spend time with people who recognize what you’re going through and can offer support. Tribute Archive recommends reaching out to close friends, family members, or even online grief support groups if there isn’t anyone close by who has gone through something similar. If those people don’t exist in your life right now, consider speaking with a therapist who can provide an ear and nonjudgmental advice as you navigate these difficult times.

Try Alternative Relief

Many people find the natural support offered by THCA helpful, potentially easing emotional distress and promoting a sense of calm. If you find a reputable source of THCA, a non-psychoactive cannabinoid, this may help reduce anxiety and improve sleep quality, aiding in emotional recovery. When used mindfully alongside other self-care practices like therapy and physical activity, THCA can contribute to a holistic approach to navigating grief.

Join a Grief Support Group

Grief support groups offer a safe space where individuals can openly express their feelings about the loss of a loved one without fear of being judged. Members of these groups often share similar experiences and can provide comfort and understanding to one another. By connecting with others who are going through a similar grieving process, individuals can find solace and feel less alone during this difficult time.

Write Cherished Memories to Honor

Writing down cherished memories of our loved ones can help keep their spirit alive, per FHE Health. From funny jokes shared at the dinner table to endearing pet names given by close relatives, these small moments serve as a reminder of the love and connection shared with our loved ones. Even though our physical connections may be gone, the memories we hold onto can bring comfort and joy, and keep our loved ones close in our hearts.

Be Kind to Yourself as You Grieve

During the grieving process, prioritizing self-care is essential for healing and moving forward. Although it’s a challenging and painful experience, there are practical tips that can ease the burden of losing a loved one. By taking care of ourselves and incorporating self-care practices, we can find solace and resilience in the face of loss.

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How To Keep Your Anxiety From Affecting Your Child

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This is a guest article by Courtney Rosenfeld

Anxiety isn’t just a personal struggle; it casts a wide net, affecting those around you, including your children. Understanding the interplay between your anxiety and your children’s well-being can lead to healthier outcomes for your family. In this article, courtesy of Our Angels Table, we’ll go over several things you can do to manage your anxiety effectively and foster a supportive environment that nurtures your children’s emotional growth.

Take Proactive Steps in Your Parenting Approach

Being proactive about managing your anxiety involves more than just addressing its symptoms. It means setting a positive example for your children by actively engaging in stress-reducing activities and making mental health a priority. This proactive approach can help prevent the cycle of anxiety from continuing in your family.

Recognize the Impact of Your Anxiety

Your emotional state as a parent plays a critical role in shaping your child’s psychological landscape. Anxiety can manifest in various ways, often subtle, that might influence your children. Symptoms like irritability, constant worry, and an inability to relax can create an atmosphere of tension that children, sensitive and perceptive, can easily pick up on. It’s vital to recognize these signs and understand how they could be mirrored in your child’s behavior.

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Fostering a Space for Open Communication

Creating a dialogue where feelings are openly discussed without judgment can reassure your children that it’s safe to express their worries. This practice helps in building trust and can provide you with insights into their thoughts and feelings, making it easier to address any issues they might be experiencing. Encourage your children to share their concerns and ensure them that it’s okay to feel anxious sometimes.

Prioritize Self-Care

Self-care is often touted, but its implementation is crucial in managing anxiety. Simple activities like reading, spending time in nature, or practicing meditation can significantly reduce stress levels. When you take care of your mental health, you are better equipped to provide the emotional support your children need.

Encourage Problem-solving Skills and Resilience

By involving your children in problem-solving activities, you help them develop resilience and the ability to handle life’s challenges. Whether it’s resolving a conflict with a friend or overcoming a difficult homework problem, guiding them through the process of finding solutions empowers them to handle bigger issues independently. Teaching them to view challenges as opportunities to learn and grow can change their perception of anxiety and stress, fostering a mindset that embraces rather than fears challenges.

Reflect on Your Anxiety and Its Origins

Taking time to reflect on your feelings and where they stem from can provide valuable insights into how they affect your parenting. This self-reflection is essential in recognizing patterns that might be contributing to your anxiety, such as stress from your job. Additionally, understanding these patterns can guide you in making necessary changes to your lifestyle or thought processes, which can result in a more serene home environment and more effective parenting.

The journey of managing anxiety is continuous and evolving. By acknowledging its presence and its impact on your family, you take the first step toward change. Your commitment to creating a healthy environment will equip your children with the tools they need to thrive emotionally and develop into resilient individuals. Remember, taking steps to manage your anxiety not only improves your quality of life but also sets a foundation of well-being for your children.

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Self-Care Activities That Will Help Your Family Relax.

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This is a guest article by Courtney Rosenfeld

In the hustle and bustle of daily life, families often find themselves caught in a cycle of stress and disconnection. However, the path to a harmonious household lies in embracing shared wellness practices. This guide, courtesy of Our Angels Table, outlines simple yet effective strategies for families to cultivate a culture of self-care, ensuring both physical and emotional well-being are nurtured.

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Fostering Open Communication

Establishing a weekly ritual where each family member can openly discuss their needs, share feelings, and brainstorm on fun activities strengthens bonds. It creates a nurturing environment where everyone feels heard and valued, laying the foundation for mutual respect and understanding. This practice not only enriches family relationships but also ensures that the emotional and social needs of each member are met.

Promoting Wellness Visually

Creating a poster together as a family not only anchors a shared commitment to wellness but also brings a personal and dynamic element into daily life. This initiative enriches the journey toward health by making it a group mission and encourages each member to contribute their voice and vision. With online tools, you can quickly personalize your poster and add your own text and photos to help boost motivation toward your shared goals.

Decluttering for Clarity

A clean and organized home environment has a profound effect on mental clarity and stress levels. Tackling clutter, especially in communal areas like the playroom, and turning it into a family activity not only achieves a tidier space but also teaches responsibility and teamwork. Making it a game to see how quickly and efficiently the task can be accomplished adds a layer of fun to the chore.

Integrating Mindfulness into Daily Life

Introducing simple mindfulness exercises, such as deep breathing, meditation, or keeping gratitude journals, can significantly impact mental well-being. These practices help mitigate stress and foster an atmosphere of calm and appreciation. Encouraging each family member to participate not only enhances individual resilience but also strengthens the collective emotional health of the household.

Encouraging Family Fitness

Committing to regular physical activities as a family, like evening walks, bike rides, or simple stretches, promotes health while providing opportunities to connect. These moments away from the distractions of daily life allow for meaningful interaction and shared experiences. It’s a fun way to instill the importance of physical health and togetherness.

Designating Tech-Free Time

Creating tech-free zones or times encourages family members to engage with one another and the world around them without the interference of digital distractions. This practice helps cultivate deeper connections and fosters activities that can be more mentally and emotionally rewarding than screen time. It’s an essential step towards balancing the digital and physical aspects of our lives.

Exploring Shared Interests

Finding hobbies or interests that excite the whole family fosters a sense of unity and discovery. Whether it’s gardening, painting, or assembling model kits, these activities allow for creative expression and learning together. It’s an excellent way for family members to explore new passions and skills in a supportive environment.

Preparing Meals Together

Involving everyone in the meal planning and preparation process not only educates about nutrition and cooking skills but also enhances the sense of community and accomplishment. It allows for experimentation with new recipes and flavors, making healthy eating a shared adventure. This collaboration in the kitchen strengthens bonds and ensures that everyone contributes to the well-being of the family.

Incorporating these strategies into your family life transforms routine into opportunities for growth, connection, and well-being. Open communication, shared activities, and a collective commitment to health and happiness foster an environment where every family member thrives. By dedicating time and effort to these practices, you cultivate a home that resonates with harmony and care, proving that the strength of a family lies in its unity and mutual support.

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Start Good Self-Care Habits Early: Help Your Kids Reset and Refresh

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This is a guest article by Courtney Rosenfeld

All people, regardless of age, benefit from self-care. As a parent, our role is to help your kids grow and thrive. Teaching kids the value of self-care can help them learn healthy coping mechanisms. Learn how to help your kids reset for the days to come with these tips from Our Angels Table.

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Be the Role Model Your Kids Need

Start with yourself. Your kids look up to you to teach them how to navigate the world around them. Start by taking care of your physical health. When you have good habits, your children learn to mimic them. You can also focus on your physical health with your kids. For example, take regular trips to the park, take long walks, or play a game of basketball in the driveway.

There may be days when it feels challenging to focus on yourself as a parent. Even when you have too much on your plate, you have to care for yourself too. When focusing on self-care, remember to stay hydrated, play a game, declutter your home or watch something entertaining. Seek out activities you love and encourage your kids to do the same.

Find Kid-Friendly Self-Care Activities

Self-care activities look different for everyone. Look for enjoyable activities that your kid may love. For instance, arts and crafts can feel therapeutic for most people. Some crafty ideas include creating tie-dye hoodies, making colored sand art, and DIY lava lamps. Discuss ideas with your children to find out what they may be interested in.

If you love music, play it often for your kids. Kids often copy their parents. If you listen to music, play music, or have a passion for it, your kids may follow in your footsteps. Never pressure your kids to do anything; let it happen organically. Music can be therapeutic and help people sleep better and reduce stress. If your kids appear stressed or upset, play music to help settle them down.

Prioritize Time With Your Kids

Kids thrive when they have a routine. Part of self-care should include establishing a structure. According to the experts, consistency, predictability, and follow-through make up building structure. When it comes to building a routine, make sure your child understands it. Do not be vague about the rules; use simple pictures and charts to display rules and routines

Prioritize time with your kids, even when busy. Kids should know that they come first. When you have a plan of attack, your kids do not miss out on time with you. To be present, you can make yourself available at bedtime every night or help with chores or bring your kid to the kitchen to prepare meals. Try to plan experiences to do as a family so you can look forward to your time together. Incidentally, this will be much easier if you focus on transforming your home into a zone of wellness and honest communication, free of negativity and resentment.

Most people can benefit from some form of self-care; this includes your kids. One of the better ways to teach your kids to care about themselves is to practice the same habits. Prioritize your children, teach them through example, and help them find coping mechanisms that work with their personality.